must a woman be able to cook to be a -real- woman?

I am so tired of hearing about how men want a woman who can cook.

I have tried to learn how to cook for the past 35 years.... I am SORRY BUT I CANNOT cook!!

Oh I know how to make things and can follow a recipe but it does not turn out well. edible... eh, yeah but tasty? not really tantalizing taste buds.

I mean really, what is it with the so called women's work anyhow?

why not simply look for someone to complete you?

or even better, someone to SHARE your life? and if that someone cannot cook either at least you will suffer together!